EVE Search - In your opinion, what makes a pvper 'good' ?

Dan Carter Murray wrote:

no blues
no scouts
no neutral alts (rr, ecm, cyno, etc.)
no links
no pirate faction ships
K/D irrelevant (in other words someone can be a good pvper with 1 kill for every 2 losses)
isk efficiency (in other words someone can be a good pvper with 25% efficiency)
ignores everyone when they say _________ ship/fit sucks **** at pvp and figures out why it actually does or why everyone is ******* stupid and to give it a go
doesn't give a flying **** about trying experimental fits and having their pending lossmail make them look insane
doesn't give a flying **** or gloat about their experimental fit wtfpwning something it shouldn't have.
engages everything within reason because WHY THE **** NOT
doesn't panick when the inevitable **** HITS THE FAN
doesn't gloat
smacks eloquently without spamming pictures when they lose
has less than 90% efficiency
kills **** tons of ships
loses **** tons of ships
kills people they have no business killing
dies to people who of course would kill them
understands why they win engagements
understands why they lose engagements
understands prior to engagements if they expect to come out on top
understands that they probably will die from external factors at some point (disconnect)
understands that they probably will die from blob, cyno, ewar, at some point
understands that they probably will die at some point but who gives a ****
knows who Santo Trafficante is and will not fly directly to gates in their pods if he is in system
in fleet engagements understand what comp beats other comps
in fleet engagements understand what their comp should do against other comps
in fleet engagements understand how their comp should can disrupt other comps
in fleet engagements understand who is important to primary, secondary, swapping, splitting dps, etc.